You will need to find a Collaborative Attorney whom you can trust to provide you with both quality legal advice and the skills needed to work towards a settlement. You can discuss with the Collaborative Attorney how to approach the other client about choosing the collaborative process, which can include you discussing the idea with him or her, your attorney contacting the other client , or your attorney discussing it with the other client's attorney, if one has been retained. In the alternative, you can contact coaches or other professionals who may be involved in the collaborative approach and discuss the process with them.